In midst of pain, is thanks-giving possible?

Vancouver Sun blogs: 2009 October 10

...In her 14 years as director of Vancouver’s Callanish Society, Janie Brown has met a lot of people who are upset, frightened and angry about cancer invading their bodies.

Two out of three of the people who show up at the Callanish Society centre in Vancouver are in the midst of recurring cancer, which is generally considered terminal.

The Callanish Society takes them as they come.

‘Canada’s youngest ventriloquist’

As a teen, she overcame shyness and a stutter by performing for children

Province: 2009 March 29

Carolyn Walters, who started her lifelong showbiz career at age 11 as "Canada's youngest ventriloquist," died at the age of 63 on Feb. 22.

Walters was born Carolyn Louise Blythe in the English working-class neighbourhood of Verdun in Montreal on Aug. 19, 1945, just after the end of the Second World War.

She was the first of five children and was a "desperately shy child, with a pronounced stutter," friend Kathleen Cross said in a eulogy at her memorial in Vancouver earlier this month.

When she was 11, she brought a hand puppet to "show and tell" at school and, while talking through the puppet in its voice, Walters told jokes without stuttering or even moving her lips and made her classmates laugh.

It wasn't long before she and her dummy, Sandy, started performing puppetry and ventriloquism with her father's amateur entertainment group, the Blue Sky Revue.

Sandy was the alter ego of the young Carolyn Blythe, the wisecracking, cynical, confident and funny person Walters became as an adult, Cross said.

By age 17, Walters was earning a living as the ventriloquist host of the CBC-TV show Sandy and Co., a gig that lasted three years and led to several other appearances on TV and radio, including the Juliette Show, Talent Caravan, Doubletalk, Tabloid and Montreal Matinee.

She and Peggy Austin later co-hosted TV's Cartoon Corner. She, along with Sandy, was also a regular on CBC's youth variety show Time of Your Life and also wrote for CTV's Hi Diddle Day show in Ottawa.

But she eventually suffered burnout as a child star and had difficulty moving beyond that persona, said Cross.

Walters was married briefly in her 20s and she and her husband had a son, Christopher Walters.

In the early 1970s, she performed as a puppeteer with the Waterville Gang, a weekly CTV show, before founding the Wobble, Lump and Squeak Theatre in Toronto, a rod-puppet company for children.

She later worked in film animation and other entertainment projects and as the production manager for the 1993 Steven Spielberg/Tim Burton film The Family Dog.

"Her whole life was devoted to expressing that childlike wonder at the world and delight in the humourous, the wacky, the downright cheeky," said Cross.

During her working years, "she worked like a maniac and then there would be times when I'm not sure what she lived on," recalled former partner Lynnie Johnston.

In 1995, while living in Toronto, Walters was diagnosed with terminal cancer at age 50 and given 18 months to live.

As testament of her friends' devotion to her, they found her a new apartment and moved her into it while she was in hospital after it was determined her loft was unsuitable for her convalescence.

Despite the early death prediction, Walters lived another 13 years.

After moving to the West Coast, she took up ocean kayaking and "extreme" knitting (knitting together multiple strands of yarn using oversized needles) and she and partner Ida Dennekamp made a short film called The Apple Doesn't Fall Far From the Tree that was screened at gay and lesbian film festivals in Vancouver, Toronto and Ottawa.

In 2005, she celebrated her decade of living with terminal cancer with a party called "10 years past expiration" and a kayaking trip with several friends to Mexico.

Walters was predeceased by her mother. She leaves her son, father and four siblings.
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BC Cancer Agency holds forum for lesbians

'It behooves us to try and find ways to make people comfortable': doctor

Xtra West: 2009 March 26
Samantha Sarra

“I didn’t recognize you without your hair,” one participant jokes with another who has lost her hair to cancer treatment.
The lecture hall at the BC Cancer Agency is a mixture of laughter and tears as 70 queer women gather for Living the Dolce Vita, an educational presentation on cancer targeted at lesbians, Mar 14.

It’s the first time the BC Cancer Agency has officially provided a forum for lesbians.

The idea for the conference came from Sarah Sample, an oncology social worker at the Vancouver Cancer Centre. For the last 10 years, she has led a support group for lesbians with cancer.

“Lesbians can come together and talk about cancer without any fear of homophobia,” she explains. “The most important thing is that they are in a safe environment. They can talk about how they feel with women who have similar issues.”

Though Sample says the health care system has generally been an accepting, inclusive place for her, there are still service disparities.

“Women have remarked to me that during treatment their partners felt invisible, were referred to as friends rather then partners,” she says. “We are holding this event to continue bringing awareness to the prevention of cancer and support for those living with cancer.”

The first presenter is registered dietician Cheri Van Patten who has worked in oncology nutrition for the last 10 years. “Lesbians have unique health behaviours that are associated with higher cancer risks including increased body weight, smoking and heavy alcohol use,” she says.

“I’ve had a hard time discussing weight issues with queer women,” Van Patten admits. “They say they’ve fought so hard to be their own women and aren’t as open to discussing body weight.”

The fact that lesbians are less likely than heterosexual women to have full-term pregnancies and breast feed, factors that protect against cancer, also increase their risk.

“Knowing that these things exist can make us better practitioners,” Van Patten says.

“Knowledge is power,” says Dr Dianne Miller, who presented on gynaecologic oncology. “There’s a chance here for the lesbian community to come together and support healthy lifestyle changes. The primary change has to come from within the community.”

Deborah Rusch, one of the Dolce Vita organizers, agrees.

“Our community has backgrounds of not being able to come out, hidden lifestyles and drinking as a way of coping, so we need to come together and look at living healthier.”

“If we can start by having less homophobia for teens, then people are going to feel better about themselves and make healthier choices,” adds Dr Karen Gelmon, doctor of oncology and professor of medicine at UBC.

“We don’t want people dying of these cancers,” she says. “We don’t have a handle on what causes breast cancer for an individual woman, but what we can do is start educating young girls and hope it makes a difference.”

Gelmon stresses the importance of public information and a non-intimidating, lesbian-friendly health care system.

“We need to take control of our bodies. Fifty percent of cancers are diagnosed by patients, their partners and their doctors. People can’t be afraid of accessing the health care system,” she says. “We need to ensure there are less negative experiences.

“There is a decrease among lesbians in the upkeep of services like mammography,” she notes. “We need to make sure we have sensitive, educated practitioners.”

“Many of the women at risk don’t access the health care system,” agrees Miller. “It behooves us to try and find ways to make people comfortable.”

Other barriers to quality care include misinformation. “There is a myth that lesbians do not get cervical cancer,” explains Miller. “You can get HPV from same-sex intercourse. I think that if you can provide the knowledge, people can make better choices.”

One of the women who attended the presentation was 36-year-old Tracy Di Venanzo. “When I was 34, I was in the shower doing a routine self-exam and I found a lump,” recalls Di Venanzo. “My spouse and son dropped me off at the clinic and went to the park to play. I went in thinking I was going to have a mammogram and I left with a diagnosis of breast cancer.

“I endured 25 rounds of chemotherapy and I opted to have a double mastectomy with reconstructive surgery. I am proud to say I am a survivor,” she says.

“This presentation was empowering and informative,” Di Venanzo continues. “I came today because any time there are new advances in cancer or any way that I can educate myself and other women, I want to be part of that.”

Living the Dolce Vita in Comfortable Shoes

A very successful event!


Moderator: Dr. Elizabeth Whynot, Past President, BC Women's Hospital

B.C. Women's Foundation
Advancing the Health of Girls and Women


Cheri Van Patten, Registered Dietitian & Clinical Researcher, BCCA


Nutrition and Breast Cancer: What You Need to Know

American Institute for Cancer Research (AICR)
- Policy and Action for Cancer Prevention

Dial-A-Dietitian

HealthLinkBC (8-1-1)

Health Canada
- Canada's Food Guide
- Canada's Physical Activity Guide
- It's Your Health
- Just for You - Women

Dr. Dianne Miller, Chair, Gynecology Tumour Group, BCCA

- GYNECOLOGIC ONCOLOGISTS STRONGLY ENDORSE NACI STATEMENT ON HPV VACCINATION
- Ovarian cancer not just one disease, local study finds


Dr. Karen Gelmon, Past Chair, Breast Tumour Group, BCCA

- Profile in Abreast in the West


Déroutes et parcours

- Watch the complete video

Lesbians & Cancer - Free Forum

The first ever BC Cancer Agency education Forum specifically on Lesbians and Cancer.

This ground breaking half day event is for lesbians with or without cancer and focuses on prevention.

Please register now as seating is limited, registration includes breakfast.

This is a Free event

The Forum is called "Living the Dolce Vita in Comfortable Shoes." Leading professionals and experts from the BC Cancer Agency will inform you of the way to healthy living, break down the myths regarding cancer screening and detail the signs and symptoms to be aware of. Learn how to take care of your health and reduce your risk of cancer. A special screening of a 25 minute video based on the journey of women with breast cancer ends the morning.

Are you entering the age where living healthy has become a high priority in your life? What constitutes a healthy lifestyle and how can lesbians engage in this?

Speakers include:

• Dr. Karen Gelmon, Past Chair, Breast Tumour Group, BCCA
• Dr. Dianne Miller, Chair, Gynecology Tumour Group BCCA
• Cheri Van Patten, Registered Dietitian & Clinical Researcher

Moderated by Dr. Elizabeth Whynot, Past President, BC Women's Hospital

Saturday March 14, 2009, 8:00am - 11:30am at the BC Cancer Research Centre 675 West 10 Avenue Vancouver.

Registration is limited so please call 604.877.6000 ext 2194 or email livingthedolcevita@gmail.com.

Please register by March 10/09.

Carolyn Walters

WALTERS Carolyn Louise (Blythe) August 19, 1945 - February 22, 2009

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of our dear Carolyn - a life-long entertainer and delightful "free spirit" who refused to let her 13 year battle with cancer take away her love of life or her quirky sense of humour. Born Carolyn Louise Blythe (Montreal) she was billed as "Canada's youngest ventriloquist" by the age of 11 and became well-loved as the child-host of the 1962 - 1965 CBC television show "Sandy and Company". She made numerous guest appearances on television and radio, including the Juliette Show, Talent Caravan, CBC's Doubletalk, and Montreal Matinee. She later co-hosted (with Peggy Austin) TV's Cartoon Corner and at 19 was a regular on CBC's "Time of Your Life" as well as writing for CTV's Hi Diddle Day children's show (Ottawa).

As a young adult she was briefly married and had a son - Christopher Jonathon Walters. She became a puppeteer with the Waterville Gang, a weekly television show that aired in the early 1970s by CTV Toronto. In 1973 she founded the Wobble, Lump and Squeak Theatre, a children's rod-puppet theatre company based in Toronto from 1973 - 1975. Some of her puppets and activities from that time are found as part of the Canadian Museum of Civilization's archive on Canadian puppetry.

She then turned her talents to film and worked on a number of film and entertainment projects. By 1991 Carolyn was with the Nelvana Animation Company where, among numerous projects, she was the Production Manger for the Steven Spielberg/Tim Burton co-production "The Family Dog" released in 1993.

In 1995, at the age of 50, Carolyn was diagnosed with terminal cancer and was given 18 months to live. Outliving all predictions, Carolyn spent the next 13 years living with and battling cancer while never losing her sense of fun and wonder at the world. While she could no longer work, she channeled her determination and creativity on other projects, as her health allowed. While living on the west coast she made the short film, "The Apple Doesn't Fall Far From the Tree" with her partner Ina Dennekamp, which had its premier screening at the Vancouver "Out on Screen" gay and lesbian film festival. The film also screened at the Toronto and Ottawa gay and lesbian film festivals. She also took up ocean kayaking and "extreme knitting".

In 2005, and true to form, Carolyn marked her decade of living with terminal cancer with a celebration she dubbed "10 years past expiration". Throughout her long stubborn battle with cancer Carolyn celebrated her life, always had a project "on the go" and taught those around her how much fun and delight can be had from life. Carolyn wanted to acknowledge, with deepest love and gratitude, her beloved partner Ina Elisabeth Dennekamp, and the amazing community of women who have loved and supported her throughout her life, and particularly during her 13 year battle with cancer. Sincere thanks must go to Dr. Karen Gelmon of the BC Cancer Institute for the wonderful care she gave Carolyn, and the "angels" who are the staff and volunteers at the St. James Cottage Hospice in Vancouver.

Carolyn is predeceased by her mother Marjorie Murielle Preston, and survived by her father Thomas William Blythe. She is also survived by siblings William (Billy) Thomas Blythe, Catherine Susan Sedlacek, Derrick Anthony Blythe, Drake Alderson Blythe and their families.

A celebration of Carolyn's life will be held Sunday, March 15, 3pm at Callanish Society, 2277 W. 10th Ave., Vancouver, BC. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the St. James Cottage Hospice, the Callanish Society or the BC Cancer Agency.

Cancer Film

Vancouver Courier: 2009 February 13

Documentary film director Pat Taylor hosts a screening of her film Chasing Rainbows: Young Adults Living With Cancer, a film she created on behalf of her daughter Sara Taylor Gibson, March 5 at 7 p.m. at the Dunbar Community Centre, 4747 Dunbar St. The event includes a post-film discussion with young adult cancer survivors Anna Peled and Vikram Bubber and B.C. Cancer Agency family counsellor Sarah Sample, as well as live music by singer-songwriter (and Chasing Rainbows co-producer) Michael Booth Palmer.

For information, visit www.chasingrainbowsproduction.com.

Manitoba lesbian couple says doctor refused them because of sexual orientation

Canadian Press: 2009 January 27

WINNIPEG — A Manitoba lesbian couple rejected by a family doctor from Egypt for religious reasons says Canada must better educate foreign-trained physicians.

Andrea Markowski said she and her partner Ginette were stunned when the Winnipeg doctor told them during a "meet-and-greet" appointment she was uncomfortable accepting them as patients and had never treated "people like you" before.

The doctor said she only treated "husbands and wives," said Markowski, who is legally married to her partner of 18 years.

"It was like a kick in the stomach," said Markowski, who just moved to the city from the Northwest Territories. "It was definitely a traumatic and unexpected experience ... She is a doctor who is paid with public funds.

"I have a really hard time understanding how her religion affects her ability to care for me as a human being."

The couple have lodged a complaint with the province's human rights commission and the Manitoba College of Physicians and Surgeons.

The Charter of Rights and Freedoms ensures no one can be denied health care on the grounds of sexual orientation, Markowski pointed out. The bodies regulating doctors in Canada must therefore take more responsibility to ensure foreign-trained physicians are ready to practise here, she added.

"We've stumbled upon a pretty serious problem and we want to make sure that it gets fixed. In some ways you feel a bit like a prisoner. There are so few doctors, it's hard to see one, but they still are accountable to provide good service," Markowski said.

"The College of Physicians and Surgeons in Manitoba and other places in Canada has to broaden the way that it assesses the skills - particularly of foreign doctors who may be coming from places where beliefs and norms are quite different - to make sure that they really are able to practise the physical, mental and emotional care of patients."

Dr. Kamelia Elias did not return phone calls seeking comment. But she told the Winnipeg Free Press that she has no experience treating gays and lesbians who have "sexual problems" and "a lot of diseases and infections."

"I said it's better to find someone who has experience and will take this type of patients," she told the newspaper.

Gay-rights organizations are calling for better programs specifically aimed at nipping prejudice in the bud.

The registrar of Manitoba's physicians college said foreign-trained doctors do undergo an orientation before they can practise in the province. Bill Pope said doctors coming from other countries suffer from culture shock when they come to Canada. Some of them have never done a pelvic exam on a woman or put on a plastic cast, he said.

"How much of a change do you think it would be if you or I were put down somewhere in a Muslim Arabic country or Uzbekistan? It would be a shock," Pope said. "We would hope that we would be forewarned about areas where we could potentially create problems without our knowing it."

The province's college has recently extended its orientation for foreign-trained doctors from one week to a month, he said. There is also some discussion of holding a session with the Manitoba Human Rights Commission so doctors get a briefing of the expectations of them under the charter.

The head of Canada's gay-rights organization said transgendered people are sometimes denied health care. But Helen Kennedy with EGALE said this is the first instance she's heard of involving a lesbian.

As the number of foreign-trained doctors in Canada increases, it's incumbent upon colleges and the country's Immigration Department to ensure they accept gay, lesbian and transgendered patients, she said.

"This is really sad. It really shows a bigger problem with people who are medically trained coming to Canada from other cultures. There is nothing in place to assist them to make the adjustment and to get the training that they need when they come here."

Still others say all doctors would benefit from a better understanding of gay and lesbian health issues.

"All physicians need to get more training on this," said Gens Hellquist, executive director of the Canadian Rainbow Health Coalition. "What little they get tends to be focused on HIV and AIDS, which is only one of the range of health issues."

Hi all,

At our last session we discussed the future for support for lesbians living with cancer here at the Cancer Agency. It seems to me that the world is changing and perhaps we can look at a different kind of support. Our numbers are quite low and I am stretched beyond my limits but still want to offer something for our community.

We discussed perhaps a peer support program. This would mean at least there would be a visual presence in the form of a poster etc for lesbian support. At this time Vancouver Centre is piloting a navigational program for Chinese speaking people. Through this process our volunteer co-ordinator has developed a training program for those wishing to volunteer. This could be adapted for women wishing to volunteer for lesbians beginning their journey with cancer.

I am wondering if this could work for us. Ie. Having a peer support/outreach program through volunteer services with me being a consultant to the program.

In addition perhaps the odd special educational program for lesbians.

Another option for future is an on-line support group.

I would like feedback on this as there were just three of us involved in this discussion. AT this point I have not cancelled the group yet. I will go ahead with the FEB group for now.

Sarah

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